In His Own Words
About him
Im going to be truthful about this, Yes Im lonely and miss grown-up conversation, and fun times with an adult that can put their phone down now and again. But it more than that and it not just about me. Im looking for lady that like be loved and knows its not a sign of being weak, to be feminine. And to want to be held, its not just one way, I love to have someone to care for and in time even love.
I will be moving very slowly with the children, and will not expose them to harm or distress, caused by me and my need to be loved by a female friend. I was blessed with love, and I love my children so much it hurts, but I have learnt that we don't get a second go at life. So is it wrong to look for it again?
Ive always been a one woman man, no messing about and playing games with someone else love. its a two way thing, and take two to tango. You will need to be brave, showing affection in public is no problem, but I may sit there missing all the signs and clues, when it come to holding hand or a first kiss.
My late wife gave me strict orders, not to be on my own for long she said is for living and its to short. but I simply don't know, and don't want to hurt anyone or be hurt. so lets start slowly and build from there. Im an Historian and Horticulturalist, so I love anything that challenges the mind.
By the way Im also dyslexic so sorry if some of this doesn't make much sense the first time you read it. Ive got a shed load of love to give and LOVE having and true friend to share it with (my children will grow up one day, Im told anyway !!!).
About his ideal match
A good friend first and above all. Not just looks, or physical but something inside. To get to a point , when we are apart from each other a part of us is missing .
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Newark, Nottinghamshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
6' 3" (191cm) | |
Body type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district NG24 (Newark) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
36 - 56 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 11" (181cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English; French; German; Italian; Japanese; Polish; Swedish | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Faithful; Funny; Generous; Loving; Mild; Quiet; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humour; Mercy; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
Other |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Documentary; Drama; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Photography; Reading; Woodwork |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Bowls; Golf; Horse Riding; Shooting |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Indian; Italian; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
In the mountains |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Soul to Soul: |
Nervous; Embarrassed |
Honesty: |
Quite |
